Description: When parents say bad things, they will lose confidence and become upset. More dangerous, they will not know how to act properly because of lack of parental guidance with the objective.
1. "I told you then"
When you hear this sentence, he'll lose confidence because everything she made mistakes and are not as mothers.
2. "When I was your age, I never ..."
This sentence is quite popular and many parents apply to the baby at different ages. Its purpose only to impose her parents properly planned (which does not recognize the old days with today's other mother of the baby).
3. "Because I say so"
A statement proven conservative, patriarchal parents, forcing her to perform without their own opinions. Later, when all aware, she may be trying to covertly against their parents.
4. "Why can’t be like your brothers/sisters?"
With this lament, you really do not like the real baby that she wanted to act like someone else (brother, sister, child). The result, she felt depressed, self-deprecating and not love him (sisters) her anymore.
5. "If you not do what I said, I’ll ignore you"
Whether it is just a joke word, their parents should not say so. This statement can be made to haunt her nightmares and sleep. If she constantly threatened to hear this sentence, he'll really frightened and increasingly more wrongdoing.
6. "You're stupid"
Critics question as she was deeply hurt and she may react by saying parodies the phrase "ignorant" to you play, you (sisters) in the house ...
7. "Hush"
Many parents threw me straight in the face saying that the baby and cause large wounds in the soul. It also caused her defiant or burning function.
8. "There is fighting thrown her all the way out there"
Fighting, fighting is part of the development of the baby. It's also a way for children to practice social skills, intimacy with other children, whether it's a hit, bite each other. Parents should try to settle the case instead of fighting excessive intervention.
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